not sure exactly to be honest
is it possible to have a soft ride, like luxury feel while not having a 'bounce' kind of feeling?
as well as lowering it not slammed but so there's minimal to no wheel gap? while improving handling ? or am i way off base? honestly i've only ever driven with stock suspension on any car i've owned

What are you looking for in a suspension? Maximum lowering, ride comfort, adjustment, damping (how soft or firm the ride is) adjustment?